But, Chris, is Mark's behavior at that point so unreasonable? I'm not defending any bad behavior as such, but considering the fact he was having regrets about committing to the (long) tour and had no ways of pulling out (was trapped) AND that his marriage was falling apart – I mean, not exactly a great foundation. Plus, you were coming from an experience with a totally different artist, Paul M., an extrovert and livewire if there ever was one, and you've stated that you were not keen on the OES gig when DS contacted you. On several levels, the OES tour shouldn't have happened, and though there is a sadness that clouds the whole thing, there were a number of magic moments that have brought much, much joy to people.