I think it perfectly describes the last DS gig in Zaragoza you wrote about earlier in this thread. After 300+ shows and more than a year of touring, who in his right mind would want to organise a party to celebrate the occasion of wrapping up?
Everyone but Mark and John?
You want to thank the crew for all their hard work. It is a final moment to take it all in, the craziness, the extremes..... it is closure.
Instead we arrived back to a darkened, empty hotel In Barcelona.
I'm not a party animal, don't use drugs and don't drink to excess, but we had a post final gig party at the end of the McCartney tour and it was a glorious celebration of everything we achieved. Paul and Linda went around and thanked everyone personally for their hard work. And rightly so.
It's odd to me that in every thread in which you post you start from the POV that Mark is always right and everyone else is wrong.
I totally agree. It's such an cold-hearted behavior if you ask me. At the end of the day these people has been more or less your family for well over a year.
I just work for MK as an attorney part-time, never mind
But seriously, I can perfectly understand your feelings and where you're coming from. It's indeed ridiculous not to mark the occasion of the end of such a long journey and the end of Dire Straits altogether, which I'm pretty sure Mark knew at the time it was coming to the end. It could be another reason not to be overly dramatic about it.
I'm just trying to look at the situation from every conceivable angle. Maybe it was the weather, or strange logistics (why not finish in one city anyway?), or build-up of emotions or fatigue, so I can understand all parties involved. Mark could easily be the only one who didn't want to acknowledge the end of things.
But this is where it always ends... With Mark. He had his reasons for behaving this way, and he dealt with the most pressure as well. He's not always right, but he's a human being with his life, decisions to be made, personal life, etc.. We sometimes act foolish at the moment and regret about it years later. Nobody's always right.