Actually I won't call this a war, but an invassion. In my opinion two sides are needed in confrontation for a war, and this is Putin (not Russia) invading Ukraine, and they are defending themselves from the Putin invassion.
It's brave how they are defending themselves from the attack of a crazy egocentric man, but sometimes I wonder if won't be better to save lifes to surrender as this maniac is not going to stop until he achieves his criminal goal.
I feel very sorry not only for all the Ukranians but also for the Russians that are totally against this egomaniac crazyness that is causing so many deaths in both sides because one egomaniac.
Ukrainian people can't surrender because that means simply that Putin will take the whole Ukraine under his bulletproof vest (can't say wings). So it means Ukraine will be part of the Soviet Union again... So they are literally fighting their final battle for independence from the USSR, that Putin tries really hard to build back. He clearly has a personal grudge with Ukraine and never understood their people. I don't know why, but he thinks that Belarus, Ukraine and Russia are all one people. But clearly, they aren't one people. It's three separate nations with some common Slavic roots and that's all!
I'm writing this from Saint Petersburg, it was called Leningrad in WWII. The Siege of Leningrad, by low estimates, cost Russia 1 million of civilian people, and all my grandparents were either killed, evacuated or died from starvation there. Just in that one city Russia lost more people than a lot of countries in WWII combined.
But more and more experts come to the conclusion that Leningrad could've just surrendered. But because it was LENINgrad, they could never ever surrender the city, so basically, the government was willing to put the lives of millions of people over not surrendering LENINgrad because the Soviet Union couldn't afford the surrender of the city with THAT name. And it's not like Russia never surrendered their cities. Heck, during the War of 1812 it was Moscow that was abandoned and surrendered.
People never were a priority of this regime, and this tradition continues to this day. The Soviet Union never collapsed, it still exists in the heads of government officials. Average age of decision makers in Russia is like 70. Putin is 70, so they're all the product of the Soviet Union, were raised there, were part of it in all senses of that word, and want the USSR back.