Many people feel kind of lost in this strange era and I'm one of them.
Apparently some people would love to dictate some kind of way of life, and there's not a single day that goes without this gender bullshit debate nowadays.
Biologically speaking we are animals, more precisely mammals. It means 2 genders, not 3, not 1 and not 0.
That strange animal called human sometimes acts as if he refuses to be what he is.
With that said, we are highly intelligent animals, let's say a different kind of animal. We are capable of using our brain et respect anyone, even other humans who have nothing in common. Some won't, I agree, but it's not a rule.
I call a woman a woman and a man a man. It doesn't mean shit, I respect anyone at the same level. It shouldn't forbid making jokes. Men make jokes about women and women make jokes about men, hell even women make jokes about other women (blondes ones mostly), nothing wrong with that if it truly is a joke and not a discrimination attempt.
Life is short, humans shouldn't waste their precious time arguing about a very natural thing, cause we're all different and still all the same somehow, so it's an endless fight and be assured that no one will win this one.