A forum is a place that should be joined in because of the same interests, obessions. People are there to share Information, news, feelings, emotions, discuss things and, yes, also share stuff like recordings etc. Within the rules. It should not be the only reason to join in a forum to get as much stuff as possible and for free in no time. The reactions here are therefore very understandable. Think of a forum as a form of small society, a society you yourself would want to live in. Calling everyone "my friend" and ask for more and more might not be very helpful when you are new to this society.