With all due respect,
Marijo, I'm afraid you lump together a range of unrelated issues, such as quaint ways of working of DK, which are discussed here, and ethical implications of some events, that sank into oblivion 30 odd years ago.
How much water flowed under the bridge ever since. All the parties involved in those affairs already went through 'the change of life', and some of them obviously not without loss...
I wonder just why DK had to say what he said.
Just try a google search for 'passive-aggressive behavior', there is plenty of reading on that subject, - and then everything will fall right into place.
And that goes also for what Ed Bicknell told about the Oh Shut up, that MK said to DK during the recording sessions??
Low blow.
MK always suffered from stammering. It was sickening to hear when Bicknell was trying to ape his manner of speaking.