Sometimes all we need to do is to humble up, swallow our pride, put our ideals aside and enjoy the ride.
Excatly, and Mark did the total opposite at that time : David explains inthe Oldfield book that he didn't understand why all the world seemed to see in Mark an "ayatollah" when he just saw his brother.
You are all saying that David "chose" to leave. What is described in the Oldfield book is not exactly that. Mark was very selfish, he wanted that David to apologise, only for not having played a particular guitar part in the studio...so yes, "sometimes all we need to do si to humble up..." indeed, but Mark had to do it too imho
I think it's not that clear that David "left" the band. Even if he didn't leave at that time, I guess that Mark would have "fired" him up a few months/years later...
Absolutely, if David was to stay in the band he'd have to accept a secondary role and Mark's rules, including evolving as a musician. When I say that David left the band I mean he didn't want to accept it, the fact that Mark's protagonism was real, and that he, David, would have to subject himself to that, being just the little brother, playing rhythm guitar and doing backing vocals. I don't think Mark would have fired David if David had, let's say, adapted. Instead David wanted to prove himself, to show the world he wasn't just Mark's brother and that he was good enough to lead a successsful solo career. In the end he neither accepted Mark's ruling nor achieved success as a solo artist, at least not commercial success.
But as I said before, it's pretty feasible that David doesn't regret anything and is happy with his career. If you ask me I think he just wants to make peace with his brother and reunite the family. That must be painful having nephews and nieces he doesn't know at all. And it applies to Mark as well, I might be mistaken but David has children too.
Come on guys, leave all the crap behind and be a family again will you.
Now just imagine the scene. David enters Mark's office, Mark gets up, they look into each other's eyes. David is a little timid. They share a smile and then Mark finally says 'come here brother, give me a hug'. They never discuss the past, always forward, just like Mark sees his music. How about that? I almost dropped a tear just picturing it