set lists are like babies
When you have 3 boys, are pregnant with your 4th baby, you are hoping for a girl this time, for a change. You go for a scan and they tell you it's another boy. You feel depressed, OMG a boy AGAIN! This is so unfair.
And then the baby is born and it turns out you love him just as much, and a 4th boy is great, you wouldn't want it any other way.